Does Being Degraded Grant You The Right To Degrade Others

I have noticed a disturbing trend that if women don’t receive gratification in the instant they believe they should, they either claim the right to remove morality from the equation. Or if women don’t receive the pleasure they believe they should then cheating on her partner becomes not only completely acceptable, but belligerently so.

I think, at least in my understanding, this can be symptoms of past abuse and an attempt at taking back power. However, more often than not, the victim becomes the abuser. A woman will attempt to fulfill her needs at the expense of their love. Actively searching for a substitute to serve their needs.

The question is: ” Is it better to cheat on your lover ? Or to leave a relationship that is not suppling your physical or emotional needs?” Should you abuse others because you were abused at sometime in the past? Does your bad experience grant you the right to pass on the pain?

In conclusion, perhaps the partner was never taught the art of pleasure. As such, the boyfriend may not know how to pleasure his lover except the obvious. Or he may also be selfish and acting out. Trying to fulfill themselves at the expense of others. Perpetually, extending the cycle of abuse and violence as ultimately use of words like cuck or inferior to satisfy their needs is simply a continuation of the original degradation.

Published by H.R. Beebe

I am a writer, poet and I am following the path of the truth wherever it leads me. I blog about the topics I feel most strongly about.

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