Are Women Going After Older Men Because They Need Stability?

I wrote a post about younger women wanting a daddy or father figure as a lover or spouse.  But, I want to cover another aspect of this phenomenon.   It has to do with the fact that the future is very uncertain.

And in this current beta male generation, women are fearful and apprehensive that they could be left homeless and starve because either their college degrees proved useless in getting a decent career. 

Or they never went to college, lost their jobs and the boys they met were not able to take care of themselves let alone someone else. As such the younger women began to search for men more like their fathers for financial security and support.

As such, they began approaching older men online.  Sometimes 15 to 20 years or more older to find the security they were lacking.  Though they are often physically desirable, being younger and possessing nice figures .  They often don’t bring desirable traits aside from sex to a relationship.

Sadly, though they are searching for lasting relationships.   They are often taken advantage of by either unscrupulous older men.  Or they themselves abuse and try to take advantage of the older men they actually do encounter.

I have seen repeated cases of women just coming out and blatantly asking for money.  Sometimes right after they meet a guy.  Or even contact him on social media to ask for money without actually formally meeting him or knowing him at all.

Ofttimes they are looking for food money.  But not always.  It is a symptom of the silent depression we are currently living through.  As such alot of young women are desperate.   And, also a number of scammers pose as women and muddy the waters of the current online dating scene.

Further, younger women have been treated atrocious by their generation of beta boys who use them for their bodies.  As well as steal anything they can from them and have zero loyalty.   Often sleeping with the young woman’s best friend.

The bottom line is this generation of young women have been left without a safety net of parents or even grandparents in some cases.  And are left to fend for themselves in the wasteland that is life in 2023.

Conclusion:  Left with very little alternative after 2020/2021 Covid Pandemic.   These young ladies have turned to older guys to try to provide for their needs and survival.  As well as to find a emotional security they just couldnt ever find in their own generation of men. 

This sad state of affairs is the failure of the parents that raised a generation of selfish young men.  As well as failing to teach these young ladies to provide for themselves.   As well as failing to leave some sort of family legacy to help sustain them into the future.  This failure of the parents and grandparents will have dire ramifications on future generations of people.

Published by H.R. Beebe

I am a writer, poet and I am following the path of the truth wherever it leads me. I blog about the topics I feel most strongly about.

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