The Grass Is Always Greener Syndrome

There has been an argument raging that modern women believe themselves better than men. Or, to be more precise, strong , independent, and not needing a man. This is the lie that has been told by 20 something women to each other.

With this lie, they justify mistreatment, cheating, lying to, and other narcissistic behavior. As such, they have caused a large amount of heartbreak and misery. Some from the complete blindness to their actions. Others, when men retaliate. And respond in kind.

And, generally, by the time women hit their mid thirties, they find themselves alone and without a friend or a mate either from having their friends blindsided them and slept with their boyfriends or husbands. Leaving them bitter and alone. And it’s around this time they begin to realize the fallacy of the things they had been told.

For some, they may not have this realization until in their forties. Some even later, if ever. Some after getting into a long-term relationship and suddenly deciding you aren’t getting x,y or z.

And divorce their men only to find out that either the men they find just use them and dump them or no one wants them at all. And when they figure this out, it’s too late. Their ex-spouse moves on and left them sad and alone.

The fact is that older men tend to fair far better than older women. As such, they become more desirable rather than less and have a much easier time of finding a new mate than their female counter parts.

Remember what the old adage is : “The grass is always Greener on the opposite side of the fence.” You may always think it’s easier to just blow up a relationship rather than put in the work and commitment required to make it work, but that is just a fallacy.

What quite a few women are beginning to find out is the men who had stuck with them and worked hard. Loved and cared for them. May not have been the perfect person. However, the truth is no one is perfect. You don’t just meet the perfect partner.

Conclusion: Relationships are situations where people learn and grow. And though you may not enter as perfect individuals. Though commitment, love, and mutual respect, patience, caring, giving, loyality, and honesty.

You will find that your mate, though not 100%, perfect in every way as far as the world is concerned. Becomes perfect for you. And in the end, that’s all that really matters.