When Wives Go Bad: Women Mistaking Kindness And Love For Weakness

Lately, I have been watching multiple videos regarding cheating spouses.  In the majority of these, the wives try to force their desires on their husband. 

Believing  that they are in control of the marriage and can do whatever they wish forcing their will on their partner. 

However, what they fail to understand or comprehend is that the husband they believe is so weak and pitiful was simply allowing their wives to have freedom in their marriage because he loved them. 

They mistook caring for weakness.  This was a fatal error they later came to regret.  Generally they stories end with the husband’s revenge on these foolish women in a myriad of hardships.

Most men react badly to being forced into a situation.   The problem is women get condescending and either insult and disrespect their men by saying their ego is so weak and fragile.  Or call them children.

Both these pronunciations are false.  You see, what they perceive as a weakness is actually their masculine nature overriding their caring restraint.   Men hold their nature in check because of love.

It a strength men exercise in order to allow their women to have a measure of freedom in a loving relationship . 

However, it has little to do with weakness and everything to do with the strength of character and discipline to control their own nature’s for the woman they love.

However, women mistake this restraint for weakness, believing their men are lacking the ability to dominate them and control their actions.

Therefore, they can do whatever they choose, and their weak husband’s will simply accept it because they have no choice or power to stop them. 

This is a mistake formulated from a false premise and a lack of understanding of the nature of their men.  And, men in general.

Women see what they perceive as (Alpha males) outside their marriage and want to be dominated by these individuals and wish their husband’s were like that and just took them. 

But see their men as lacking the ability to do this.  Women are attracted by strength. What they fail to understand or realize is that their men possess the same latent ability.

The only reason they don’t just force their will on their spouse is out of kindness and consideration for them because of love. 

The men, for their part, take on the roles of husband, father to their children, and lover and provider to their wives and family. 

They mask their dominate nature’s controlling them for the good of the family and their spouse in particular.

However, what these women fail to understand is the level of strength, control, and determination it takes to maintain that control over time.

They may see snippets of their true nature from time to time in stressful situations.  Such as crisis in the family or arguments with him.

In those times, they get just a glimpse of his true dominate nature temporarily until he remains his composure.  Most women miss it because they are caught up. I’m the moment.

However, if they saw it, it would have been a clue as to the possibility of their potential actions should they ever be forced to draw on that dominant nature in the future.

In most of those infidelity stories, after the wives reveal their intent to cheat on their husband’s breaking their hearts, they release the beast, so to speak.

Their husband’s racked with pain and misery revert to their masculine dominate nature’s, and their wives finally realize that the apex predator wasn’t absent, merely dormant.   Released by their own actions.

Conclusion: Men , for the most part, are dominated by nature.  Their are a portion that are beta or other . 

However, most men possess the capacity to be dominated under the right circumstances.   And they simply control themselves for the good of themselves, their spouses, and their families.

Never mistake control for weakness.  Or kindness, love, caring, peaceful nature for weakness.  None of these things indicate a lack of strength or resolve.

The thing you must remember is that the apex predator is always present.  The only thing that stops it from taking control is the will of the man possessing that nature.

While unattached men may show traits of a alpha nature.  That doesn’t mean the attached men don’t possess it. 

They simply control it and hide it for the sake of their family.  It’s always present, and if you force the man to let release it, you do so at your own peril.  

Never take a man’s love for granted.  Or abuse him because you can.   Or you main see first hand that your man indeed is a alpha, and can be dominate when it is required.

You have been warned.  Rather than hunting for a dominant man outside your marriage, why not encourage your man to be more dominate with you.

He might welcome the opportunity to occasionally release his masculine side.  I guarantee you won’t be disappointed.   And, it will avert a lot of pain for everyone involved.