In the past 2 years since I separated from my ex, I have been approached by a number of women. Most are saying they are looking for a looking for a long term relationship.
However, this seems to translate into them wanting something from me. Whether it’s money, gift cards, food, or even clothes, sex and rent money.
The truth is, in my opinion, as a man, I am simply a resource to be tapped for whatever financially they are lacking in their lives. I have taken a great deal of my time and effort to converse and delve into these women’s lives. The recurring them is what I can do for them.
A number of them were sex workers. And though I don’t judge anyone for surviving. At the same time, I didn’t seek them out. I have simply been trying to move on with my life and find a trustworthy partner to spend my life with. What I didn’t sign up for was another dependent.
Apparently, women nowadays believe men are simply a commodity to be utilized for personal gain. I think relationships are supposed to be just that a relationship. Not just to use the other person as a resource to tapped whenever they need something.
In the generation of the narcissistic focus, it’s a rarity to actually meet someone who is interested in just you for you. Who sets out to take care of another’s need simply because without any ulterior motives.
In a time of blatant selfishness, it is the selfless heart that is the rose among the thorns.
Conclusion: Unconditional love is as rare as a white diamond. Or a person who simply gives without explanation. Those individuals are the finite precious few that once encountered will never be forgotten.
Women's Self Esteem And Sexuality
Women are their own harshest critics
Women's Self Esteem And Sexuality 