Love Me:  Online Relationships in a Physical World



The difficulty of having an online relationship is many and varied.   Among these are first and foremost, making sure the person they say they are is the actual person and not a catfish.

Second, there is a lack of closeness and intimacy.  Not necessarily sex.  Just the lack of having someone physically with you can be a lonely proposition.

Sex is definitely in the ballpark.  But kissing and hugging guild closeness.  Further, without that connection, you are never sure of fidelity.  Cheating is running rampant nowadays.

The other elephant in the room is the tendency for women to constantly request financial support without providing anything in return. 

Apparently, if they send a picture that is sufficient to reciprocate after asking for huge sacrifices from the men.  Even when men do help them substantially.  They act as though it’s just to be expected .  Completely discounting those sacrifices . 

Even going so far as to ask for more relegation of their part to the role of online ATM machines.  The narcissistic tendencies run wild as they believe just showing up is payment enough for any sacrifice the man makes.

Conclusion:  Online relationships are a boon for the woman.  While the man must sacrifice and hope for the best.  Like most things in life, there is an unbalance in the power dynamic, allowing the women to control everything while the men are just living wallets.

Published by H.R. Beebe

I am a writer, poet and I am following the path of the truth wherever it leads me. I blog about the topics I feel most strongly about.

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