Self-Serving Mindset And The Loss Of Empathy, compassion, or love

In the day and age, people have become very narcissistic,  controlling,  and focused on themselves at the exclusive of almost anything else.

This is evidenced in their almost cult like support of abortion.  Rather than simply using contraceptives in the correct way.  They want to simply do what they choose without a thought as to the ramifications.  

Afterward,  kill the unborn fetus rather than simply being responsible for their actions in the first place to prevent the need for the abortion in the first place.  Or even abstaining.

Thus, we understand there is a rash of the lack of those having very little empathy, compassion, or even love for others.  Their thoughts have become self-serving, lacking any care for anyone, but themselves.

This is magnified online with women looking to enter into online relationships.   However, the real purpose is to say they are in a relationship.   However,  what they really want to do is use the man as a source of funds.

They use words like “caring” and “loving,” neither of which do they understand or mean.  What they actually want is a sugar daddy to fund their life.  So they don’t have to work.  Some, rather than enter into this sort of agreement, may sell naked pictures of their bodies.

However, the purpose is to fund their life styles without the need to give of themselves.   In essence, it’s mental prostitution,  selling the idea of love and a relationship without actually ever being in a relationship.

To the unsuspecting men who suffer from loneliness.   It seems as though they are in a relationship.   As such, these men act in accord with this idea and may even become emotionally attached to the online woman.  They are generally lonely , sincere, and committed.

The women can range from simply using them for funding, to looking for  long term financial commitments,  looking for a sugar daddy, or even a catfish ( a fake , not even necessarily a woman at all).  Their only actual purpose is financial gain regardless of who they harm.

This happens a lot in the digital age.  The net result is a lot of men who are tired of simply being used by women for their own needs. 

Devoid of any actual caring themselves.   A lot of women who get cheated on and dumped because the men have been hurt in the past and are mentally protecting themselves from that pain again.  By hurting the women they think are out to hurt them.

The men may simply check out and stop relating in any capacity with women feeling they all simply use men for their selfish needs.  Without any caring for the men at all.

Conclusion:  What has caused such a complete breakdown of caring in women, to such a degree they now simply use men as a resource?  Seeing them as a commodity rather than a human with feelings and needs themselves?

I’d like to say it is mental illness.  Or a criminal need to rob the males of their possessions.  

While I’m sure there are a percentage of these women who this does apply to, such as scammers and male con artists who catfish as women to simply steal from other men.

What I believe is a true issue is a crisis by design that was formented as part of a plan to destroy the nuclear family.  Separating men from women in ways that they pit one gender against the other.

The children often are forced to live in broken homes .  As such, both men and women grew up without either mothers or fathers.   Both long for the nurturing they were deprived of growing up.

It manifested in very different ways in men and women.  The men long for a nurturing female who will take care of them as a mother figure. 

They long for a closeness they were denied as a child.  Their loneliness as an adult stems from that lack of a nurturing female presence in their lives.

The females long for the strong, protective, loving male father figure who will not only protect them and make them feel safe.  But, also the male provider who takes care of all their worldly needs.

Both men and women are attempting to fulfill these needs.  Online, it translates into men looking for love and caring.  Women are looking for a financial provider to care for them financially. 

Which is why younger females have been looking for the security of older men.  Who take on the father figure role they crave.  Both sexes are simply trying to fulfill the psychological needs they have been denied since childhood.