Trust , Loyalty, and Relationships



Trust and loyalty are the cornerstones of a long-term relationship along with fidelity and love.  The problem is that most people are only out for their own selfish needs.

This leads to disrespect,  mistrust, and cheating.  Most see nothing even wrong with their actions.  As such, a lot of men simply swore of dating and merely sleep around. 

Men , for the most part who choose this path because they have been hurt in the past , lied to, and cheated on by a woman.

Women who do this in many cases see themselves as entitled.   You see a similar sense of entitlement online with videos of them demanding compensation for simply showing up as if they were royalty or a celebrity. 

Asking for pre – and post date compensation.   Others say if a man doesn’t offer to pay for whatever, then they aren’t worthy.  Some say they want millionaires or billionaires.

While others simply see cheating and lying as part of fulfilling their needs and have little to no consideration for men at all.

It’s the same narcissism that allows them to contact random men on the internet and ask for money just because.   They have no care or consideration for men at all.  It’s all about what they need or want.

Conclusion:  In order to have a lasting, successful long-term relationship, there has to be loyalty,  trust, love, commitment, and monogamy.   As well as caring,  giving.  Without these bare minimum requirements, last relationships become impossible.

As well as the desire to sacrifice yourself for your partner.  If you can’t do this, then you can never have a lasting relationship.   You will prioritize your needs above others.  Doing this in the end will ensure you will end up alone when you are older.


Published by H.R. Beebe

I am a writer, poet and I am following the path of the truth wherever it leads me. I blog about the topics I feel most strongly about.

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