How To Get And Keep an Older Man

Today, everybody is looking for a lasting relationship.   Most younger women turn to older men because they believe they are more stable and caring than the younger ones. 

While this is true.  Being with an older man has its own unique set of challenges .  Many have been through a lot and are struggling with getting older, and the body changes accompanying those changes.

Many are just looking for peace and someone to take care of them after decades of struggle and sacrifice .  They need someone to love them because the real curse is that men suffer in silence . 

Being expected to be the  strong one and feeling the effects of loneliness.   The effects of being used for a number of things. 
Money, sex, emotional support, always taking but rarely giving to them.

Being a man is to walk your life alone.  Always expected to serve in silence because that’s your place.  To take care of your partner, your children.  But who takes care of him?

Conclusion:  If you seek an older man.  Then, you need to  understand he has suffered mightily and sacrificed his whole life.  He was never allowed to show weakness, to show his emotions, or had someone just take care of him.

Men were raised to lead.  Leading is a thankless job.  He was raised to be the provider to give without complaint.  Though, he longs to be provided for.

He has spent a lifetime giving everything he is without reservation and receiving nothing in return, though he never expected anything except perhaps gratitude and maybe love.

So if you are a young lady looking for an older man, remember he spent his whole life alone.  If you love him, give to him, and take care of him.  You will never find a more loyal, caring person and giving man in your lifetime than him.