How To Find The Soul Mate You Need

The first mistake people make is to assume the perfect person or relationship exists.   It doesn’t.  We are imperfect people regardless of how you look, what you know, or where you exist in the social order of things rich or poor.

The truth is true. Soul mates are made through interaction and mutual respect and unconditional love.  Trust, loyalty, caring, and spiritual support are all components of this growing process. 

Life isn’t always sunshine and rainbows.  The rain comes too.  Though without the rain, you have no flowers.  As well as without the storms, you wouldn’t value those days in the sun. 

Each has its purpose in teaching you to value the complete experience of life.  There is no such thing as the perfect day.  Rather, each day is an experience to be learned from, savored, and then let go in order to move forward and grow. 

We don’t live in a vacuum, but we need companionship to survive and flourish.   Your partner is that for you.  You are the showers for their parched soul.  You are the sustenance for their staving spirit.  You are their comfort when their minds are troubled and they are alone.  They are your peace in this chaotic world. 

They  represent your security in a time of unrest.   They become your other half.  The word ,”Love,” is a meaningful word that does not encompass the whole of the feeling toward each other.  In truth, there is no phrase or word that can fully convey the depth of what you two feel toward each other. 

Unconditional love is the closest you can get.  Self-sacrifice is just an action you  develop toward each other… it’s just a natural response.   You make each better people. 

If death is the absence of a partner, and the loneliness that , that would instill.  Then you represent life to each other… for you both encompass every good thing that stands polar opposite to that emptiness and absence of meaning.

Conclusion:  Soul mates are developed through the interaction with another soul on a deeper level.  Beyond the superficial,  the material.  This is a truly spiritual experience.  

Once achieved, it’s like the difference between talking about living and actually living.  It’s oxygen for the soul.  It’s like a dehydrated man given as much water as he can drink.

Finding the person who is willing to go on this journey with you is like waking up from a bad dream and finding your beloved there to comfort your every fear.

It is a once in a lifetime experience.   We are none of us perfect.  We are all flawed and imperfect.  In order to truly gain your soul mate, you must be willing to meet them where you and they are and grow together on this journey as lovers, friends, and family.

This is the key to gaining your soul mate and achieving true happiness.