Of late, I’ve noticed a rash of people who have become more and more demanding. Whether in a relationship or not, it’s always about their wants and needs over others.
And, they are fully prepared to cut you out of their lives if they feel you are either unwilling or unable to exceed their demands. Generally centering around money.
It’s frustrating to try to reason with such an individual. Let alone try to reach a compromise as they simply expect you to comply without any consideration toward your needs, wants, feelings, or even capability to actually fulfill their demands.
This is a symptom of a wider issue. The propensity toward the belief that they are the center of the universe and the world must bend to them. Rather than that, they are part of a community and that in order to get you must give. This is a universal law. Action, reaction.
As society begins to crumble, more and more people tend to become self serving narcissist who focus on themselves at the exclusion of everything and everyone else. This is why society as a whole is collapsing in the first place.
It happens when people focus so much on their own needs that they forget the needs of the community, society, and world. This is also the reason relationships have begun to crumble at an alarming rate.
They focus on their own selves to the exclusion of everything else. And fulfill their needs without a second thought of the needs of their partner or family. Ofttimes, leaving their spouse and children to run off with a lover.
And it’s usually a best friend of their spouse. That best friend not caring how they hurt their friend as they seek to fulfill their selfish desires as well.
As such, selfishness has become epidemic, and due to this, the community, society, and world have suffered greatly as a result. I’d like to say that this is a purely organic occurrence.
However, understanding the agendas of the Globalist elite as I do, I see it’s merely a culmination of decades of preparation and planning coming to fruition .
During the 1950s, the old Soviet Union set upon a plan to collapse the West. If was a multi point strategy to corrupt, degrade, and ultimately destroy capitalism. and Western society.
And though the Soviet Union is no more, the initial plan remains. Because it was hatched, planned, and carried out by the same unscrupulous people know collectively as the Globalist elites today. Same people, different moniker.
They are masters at rebranding and never letting you know it’s the same individuals perpetuating these disastrous plots to destroy human society at large.
As such, today’s narcissistic attitude is the culmination of their agenda to separate, divide, and ultimately conquer the human population of the planet.
As usual, it does not happen by coincidence. It has been cleverly conceived, planned, and put into operation behind the scenes so quietly no one will know a thing until the population destroys itself from within.
It’s the grandest conspiracy played out completely unknown to 99% of the population obediently following the direction of people they will never even be aware of. Because more of them are completely asleep.
Unaware, barely sentient, or cognizant of the world around them. Focused solely on their own petty concerns. Oblivious to the actual clear and present threat right at their own doorstep.
Conclusion: Society is a fragile thing. Subject to the whims of sociopathic masters whose intent is to destroy it one community at a time, one family at a time until they achieve their own goals and ends.
Families and individuals are expendable collateral damage. As such, they encourage self-centered conduct as a weapon in their arsenal to be wielded to achieve their ultimate goal of world depopulation and control.
The individual simply doesn’t figure in because to them, you don’t matter. And their target is the nuclear family.
Which is why they center the society at large on self gratification at the expense of everything else. They have weaponized self gratification over self-sacrifice. As well as selfishness over unconditional love.
Open Marriage: The Deathknell For A Committed Relationship
I have read and listened to countless stories of infidelity and betrayal on YouTube, Reddit, and other platforms. And what I have witnessed over and over is a recurring theme lack.
Lack of intimacy, of spontaneity, of excitement. Boredom is probably the number one enemy of long-term relationships. These cautionary tales seem to point to triggers that lead to the dissolution of their relationships.
The first trigger is a condition called (Empty Nest Syndrome,) which is the result of all the families’ children growing up and moving out of the family home.
After which, the mothers begin to get restless, believing they deserve rewards for completing their task of raising their children and want to explore life. This is a key word for extra marital sex.
For some reason, women who are bored decide they are owed sexual exploration after a predetermined time being in a committed, monogamous relationship. In truth its simply narcissism, arrogance, selfishness, and a complete disrespect of their spouse.
Ofttimes a man who has singlehandedly worked multiple jobs to care for and provide for her and his children over years or decades faithfully.
This contempt and disrespect has occurred due to familiarity (which breeds contempt) and from either inattention to her needs physically, mentally, or emotionally.
Or a lack of leadership, and this weakness leads to his woman believing she can do whatever she wants because she can and that he is too weak to prevent it from occurring.
Another reason is physiological in women reaching menopause which results in a hormonal imbalance and a marked uptick in libido. This can lead to a woman going outside the marriage seeking multiple sexual partners to satisfy a purely sexual need.
Though it doesn’t always lead to infidelity, most often, it will lead to one or multiple extramarital lovers on the woman’s part. Cheating becomes institutionalized.
In a number of cases, it ends with the destruction of the marriage at the very least. And, the husband, in extreme case, exacts brutal revenge on the woman and her extramarital lovers.
While such violent reactions are obviously not the course of action any rational human being should take to resolve such an issue. In these cases, we aren’t dealing with rational thought.
Most of these men are striking out physically because of extreme emotional angst caused by perceived disrespect and betrayal. With these men having sacrificed a large portion of their lives for their children and their wives.
Love can, in these cases, turn to hate and then indifference very rapidly in the face of such blatant overt disrespect of their sacrifices and love. The opposite of love isn’t hate. It’s indifference. A complete lack of caring is what is born of such betrayal.
Infidelity can take many forms. Emotional, physical, and even spiritual or mental. Cheating behind their partners back in any of these is infidelity.
Those emotional and physical are generally deal breakers in that marriage vows are meant to be respected and not up for interpretation. Forsaking all others is pretty clear.
However, there has become an idea that if you tell your spouse you intend to have extramarital affairs, then it isn’t cheating. But instead clears the way for such actions to take place guilt free.
This is complete fiction. If you just blindside your spouse and tell them you are going to cheat, it clears you of nothing. Cheating is cheating regardless of whether you announce it or not.
You can’t simply force your spouse to accept such a proposal. You began the relationship with an understanding that you would both be monogamous and faithful. You can’t just expect them to suddenly change that midstream.
It’s not only narcissistic on your part. It’s also quite selfish, egotistical and disrespectful to a man who in most cases has dedicated a large portion of his life working for your well-being and forsaking all others to keep his vow to you to be faithful.
As such, the concept of (Open Marriage) simply means a license to cheat guilt free. And, generally marks the end of most monogamous relationships. If it is even brought up, the man should consider his marriage is either over already.
Over at the very least we’ll on its way with his wife either already in an emotional relationship with someone else. Or she has already slept with another man and is now seeking a way to comfort a guilty conscious.
Open marriages are licenses for disaster. They represent a deathknell to any normal marriage. As such should not be even considered, let alone allowed to take place.
If you entertain such a notion, just understand that for all tenses and circumstances, your marriage is over. And rather than drag it out, which will only cause you more pain and suffering.
A man should just shut down such foolish ideas. And, state in no uncertain terms it’s either your marriage or the street. There is no third choice.
Any woman who would bring up such a ludicrous idea is already gone. You just don’t know it yet. It is a disrespect, a betrayal, and it is done on purpose and with complete understanding that this is infidelity on the woman’s part.
She is only telling you to alleviate guilt in her mind for betraying you. She is well aware it’s disrespectful and, at the same time, selfish enough to not care if she hurts you or not. Your feelings and desires are irrelevant to her.
As such, a man in this situation must protect himself, his assets, and emotional well-being. If your wife approaches you with this proposition, you must make her understand that you will not tolerate such disrespect.
And you will immediately file for divorce. There can be no other answer to such a betrayal. 9 times out of 10, the wife is only seeking absolution for her own guilt.
Conclusion: The very concept of open marriage is an anathema to everything a solid marriage stands for. It is fiction, a sham, and simply a keyword for infidelity.
Such an idea should never be tolerated, entertained, or allowed to continue, that is, if you want to remain happily married. All the cheating stories point to the same theme. Once you go outside the marriage for sex, the marriage is over. Remember, men, you have been warned.
Narcissism And The Collapse Of The Nuclear Family
The world today has become a very different place than it was said in the 1950s. The destruction of the nuclear family has been a target of globalist powers using Marxist ideas and through pseudo women’s movements in a bid to divide the sexes.
This process began in the 1950s when the Soviet Marxist published their goals for the destruction of capitalism. Among those goals was the destruction of the nuclear family, as well as a separation of the children from their parents.
They wanted the state to become the defacto parents to those disenfranchised youth, and to a great degree, this has become a reality.
They created Cults such as the Cult of Trans, Queer, Non-Binary, and an educational system, which is anything but to further dumb down and divide those youth from their parents.
As such, many of these young men and women just have no capacity for empathy, compassion, critical thought, or caring. Having been taught that self-centered behavior is the only correct path. In effect making them a generation of selfish entitled Narcissist.
They believe their needs, wants, and desires are all-encompassing, and as such, the rest of the world’s cares are unimportant. This gave rise to the idea of the (Karen), a self-important individual who believes they are above the law, and people and their beliefs control society in direct opposition to reality.
Without the nuclear family, society as a whole becomes a group of self-centered individuals who are incapable of interacting with others or having lasting relationships.
They simply cater to their own needs and don’t concern themselves about the needs of anyone else. This is why there is an epidemic of cheating, the breaking up of relationships, and those who do this also steal from their partners.
It becomes all about me and to hell with everyone else. Society has become a group of lonely people unable to relate to each other. And, they are deluded enough to believe they are the end all be all and no one else matters.
This is all caused by the collapse of the nuclear family and destruction of cohesive communities that actually cared about their fellow man.
Sadly, it is a created disaster that was perpetrated on the nation’s by Globalist elites whose goals were to destroy the cohesive societies in preparation for elimination of the countries to make way for a one world government.
The UN and the national governments of the West are complicit in pushing these anti-family agendas. And, are directly responsible for the chaos that the destruction of the nuclear family has caused on society at large.
Conclusion: The answer to this dilemma is simple. It’s caring about others. It’s looking outside yourself and having empathy for more than just your own needs and desires. It’s the willingness to put someone else ahead of yourself and loving unconditionally.
This is the only way forward toward a lasting, successful relationship. True love is to care, to give, and to make someone else more important than yourself.
This is what Christ meant when he said (Love others as you would yourself). If you want to be loved… then love first. And, love is the key to a long-lasting relationship.
Random Online Encounters And The Casual Use Of The Word Love
Of late, I see an uptick of random women sliding into my dms and popping up on my social media apps. I generally question them as to how we were acquainted. I received a number of replies. However, the usual response is that I just came up on their feed, or we met a long time ago.
Most are looking for a boyfriend or hookup. However, I have noticed their overuse of the word (Love). Even if they just met you. They say they love you right away. As such, it is abundantly clear that they have very little understanding as to the true meaning of the word.
They simply use it to mean ( Want). Not in its actual meaning. As such, it not only cheapens the word itself. But proves that perhaps they themselves don’t have an actual grasp of the meaning of the word.
Relationships have become very self-serving, with each partner trying to fulfill their needs independently rather than seeking to fulfill their partners’ needs. As such, relationships have become narcissistic, manipulative, and controlling in nature.
This has been leading to a record level of cheating on their partners. Thus, record numbers of breakups. I attribute it to selfishness and not truly understanding the meaning of love. Believing desire rather than actual caring is the key to a lasting relationship.
Conclusion: Due to a self-serving attitude and a lack of true caring and empathy, relationships in the modern era can’t survive. Love is caring, giving, and nurturing. Without those, the word is hollow and empty without true meaning.
Love Held Hostage For Money With Threats Of Infidelity And Breakup
Men have been faced for many years by entitled partners that leverage their power over their emotional well-being by threats of infidelity and breakup.
Third wave feminism has told women that anything is fair in dealing with men. If they want something (usually money), they can threaten anything the force the man’s compliance.
Whether it stating, give me what I want or another man will. At times going so far as to show pictures of other men ( in cases of online relationships) or even letting the men see their woman with another man to drive the point home.
They use a host of other veiled threats through breakups, and withholding sex tend to be gotos most used for forced compliance, especially when money is the desired outcome.
Or if they wish to do something their man either can’t do, or is unwilling to do, perhaps do to the hardship that would be caused to acquiesce to their demands.
The question is: (Should a man set boundaries then convey them to their partner, along with consequences should those boundaries be crossed?)
While I wholeheartedly believe relationships should be entered into only on the basis of desire on both sides for a long-term commitment.
I also believe narcissistic abuse, entitled actions, selfishness, and emotional abuse must be addressed, and in some cases, toxic people must be removed from your life for your emotional well-being.
There is never a good reason to allow anyone to abuse you emotionally, physically, or spiritually. Why disagreements occur in every relationship. It’s not ok to accept emotional blackmail in order to keep anyone in your life.
Further, if your partner uses such tactics in order to get their own way, you must call them on such threats, in my opinion.
Standing you ground morally if your partner refuses to compromise or if this type of victimizing behavior becomes their standard way to get what they want.
Men and women should both have clear-cut boundaries and expectations entering into a long-term relationship. As well as channels for addressing needs, disagreements, and emotional concerns.
These should not only be spelled out in advance before entering into such a union. Monogamy should be discussed, and agreed upon and boundaries set so their is never a misunderstanding later.
Conclusion: No one should ever have to be held hostage emotionally by their partner for selfish reasons. If your partner can’t agree to discussing rather than forcing their desires on the other partner.
Then, after every attempt is made to discuss reasonable solutions, then perhaps it is better to remove the individual from your life rather than live a life of continued ridicule and emotional victimization.
Never accept such abuse in your life whether it’s emotional, physical, or spiritual.
Better to be alone than held hostage by a narcissistic, controlling, toxic individual worried more about themselves than their partner in a committed long-term relationship .
Online Relationships: Real Connections or Catfish Scams
This style of dating has become the norm of a generation that has been weened on the internet as their goto for just about every aspect of modern life.
Shopping, working, socializing with friends, and now dating and relationships. The question is how to build a lasting connection with just a photo and some words on the screen.
Without the personal and emotional componate. It is boiled down to simple words on the screen. Especially in the instance of long-distance relationships.
Lacking intimacy, we are left with the cold, clinical connection to a cellphone screen or computer screen. As such, it’s very difficult to connect on a deep level. This is true when one party gets distracted and doesn’t respond in the middle of a chat.
Further, invariably, the woman wants the many to accept traditional gender roles such as financial support without bringing anything to the table themselves.
It’s amazing in a time of third wave feminism how the women want men who emaccept their traditional gender role. When they themselves won’t, many times reciprocate the actions or sentiment.
Further, a majority of women have taken to the tactic of (Popping Up) in social media apps without prior contact sliding into the man’s dms and after a brief introduction request financial support without preamble.
It’s not only a bit rude but also presumptuous that the man would simply acquiesce to such an unreasonable and forward type of request.
Especially without bringing anything to the table to even warrant entertaining such a request. The women of today appear to not only be self-centered. But also entitled and spoiled believing their body alone would warrant acquiescence to such a demand.
As stated lacking the emotional and intimacy components, men are left to consider the possibility of future sexual release as the only net positive of even considering such an obvious self-serving proposal out of hand.
Further, even after conversing for an extended period of time, the women are more likely to (expect) men to acquiesce to their financial demand in order to continue to grace the man with their time.
As if the man’s own needs, desires, and time are virtually worthless in comparison. Sadly, all too often lonely men will sacrifice their own needs and wellbeing for a woman who is simply using them for financial gain effective using him as an online bank.
Then she hit him up whenever she was running low of funds. With no intention of actually having a future with the hapless guy. This occurs all too often. As well as women posing as looking for a boyfriend only to reveal themselves as sex workers In disguise.
This brings us to the final type of encounter that of the person posing either as someone they are not using someone else’s photo, name or even may be a guy themselves. This is commonly known as catfishing.
This occurs for several reasons, either it is a less than attractive individual who tries to date above their level. Or it is done as a con, scam, or deceit in order to fool an unsuspecting man to enter into a financial relationship for personal gain. Using the hapless individual as a continued source of funds rather than a legal profession.
Conclusion: Online dating is an emotional minefield wrought with pitfalls and rife opportunities for making possible lasting connections interspersed with narcissistic individuals who are self-serving at the expense of whoever is unlucky enough to cross their paths.
Further, without ever meeting face to face, such a relationship is a crap shoot at best with happiness or emotional and financial hardship at the worst. All relying on a roll of the dice.
The best advice I can give is to let the dater beware. If they seem too good to be true, then it probably is a con or scam. Remember, if your gut tells you there’s something wrong , block them and move one. There is more fish in the sea. And more potential people out there.
Don’t be a victim or a convenient goto for funds for a conman or scammer.
The Lies Of Open Marriage: A Road To Divorce
I have been following several YouTube channels as well as Reddit and other sources which convey stories of women bored with their regular married lives and decide to force their spouses to except an open marriage saying it will revive their mundane existence.
As I listen to all the tales, what has become abundantly apparent is that this idea is born out of selfishness. It is forced in many cases on a monogamous partner and shoved down the husband’s throat whether they like it or not. It never revitalizes anything. What I observe happening that it triggers divorce almost immediately.
In many cases, it also triggers a violent retaliation from the husband. A loving man can not accept not only betrayal in his wife.
But also due to pride and ego must find out who the offending man that took his wife, but in most cases either injured that man or in extreme cases eliminate them entirely.
As well as divorcing that wayward wife doing as much damage as possible to her reputation and finances in the process. It never ends well and most certainly does nothing to preserve the union.
The women involved at least in some cases see their husband’s as inadequate either as a lover, provider, or man. Rather than granting their husband’s the respect of simply leaving the marriage.
They prefer to embarrass and insult their manhood and try to force them into the position of a cuckled inferior beta male who accepts his position and allows the insult to stand.
Unfortunately, this rarely works to the woman’s advantage. As stated above, the husband tends to retaliate violently and go scorched earth. Or plot a revenge of epic proportion in which he destroys the lovers’ life, wife’s life, and then gets his own woman on the side as well.
In many cases, that woman is the wife of the man his wife has been having the affair with. Nothing is more dangerous than a woman scorned. As such, the wife of the man cheating with the first man’s wife exacts brutal revenge as well.
While a small, and I do mean small amount of people can live in a poly love lifestyle. Those are ones that began with that mindset from the outset of the relationships.
Not those who start out agreeing to a monogamous lifestyle, then after a period deciding to force the poly lifestyle later out of boredom or selfish desire. Those relationships fail 100% of the time. Most times, spectacularly.
Conclusion: A relationship is a partnership in which both spouse feelings and thoughts must be taken into consideration. As such, if one can not or will not accept the agreed upon conditions the under which the relationship began.
It’s better to part ways as friends. Rather than create hatred, animosity, and anger against a person you have loved for a long time. Further, if a person is truly your friend, why insult and destroy that relationship? It’s better to simply desolve that union walk away friends than to create life-long enemies for foolish reasons.
Boredom and selfishness is not a good enough reason to destroy the life of someone you care about. A final suggestion think before you act. Your actions have consequences.
Jealousy:Normal or Controlling?
Are monogamous relationships a natural progression of a couple moving closer to one and other, or is it an unreal expectation? Is possessiveness a natural feeling in such a monogamous relationship?
Jealously is the progression of that possessiveness of one of the partners who had entered into this relationship knowing it is closed beginning to see the other partner flirt or otherwise seek attention from anyone other than their partner?
Is jealously a legitimate emotion given the elicit nature of the straying partner? Is there such a thing as controlling given the nature of the betrayal?
Jealously is framed as controlling, narcissistic, egotistical, and other derogatory descriptions, but are they really? With a host of women looking for long-term relationships. Is it unreasonable that one or both partners become emotionally attached and desire to possess their partner exclusively?
The fact is if you knowingly enter a monogamous relationship, it is implied that both partners are exclusive in their sexual relationship. If one partner acts in such a way, such as to kiss, fondle, or engage in sex then that it is natural for the offended partner to not only feel put out.
Further, such jealousy tends to be warranted under such obvious betrayal. However, is jealousy under normal circumstances necessary? Such feelings tend to lead to conflict and, under extreme circumstances, violence.
Yet, if you are monogamous with your partner, isn’t it reasonable to expect not only possessiveness but expectation and desire to be wanted in such a fashion?
While to those who want the free agency to act as they they choose. To do so negates the whole point of commitment to one partner forsaking all others.
As such, the argument of being controlling is simply a way of saying they don’t take their commitment seriously without just coming out and saying it.
As such, I would argue that if you have chosen to be monogamous then you also accept that if you act in any way that negates such a commitment, then jealously is not only warranted but justified. Because you misled your partner to believe you were theirs and theirs alone.
Conclusion: To enter into a monogamous relationship is to accept all the commitments that come with that contract. Possessiveness is part of that commitment. As such, jealousy is not only expected but warranted if your actions do not match your words and the commitment you agreed to enter into.
Your Partner Cheated: Now What?
There has been an explosion of infidelity of late spurred on by internet social media, abundance of dating apps, and the Grass Is Greener Syndrome.
Nowadays, people are always looking to trade up. Believing that they are better than their partners. When the truth is you are just being lied to by an increasingly selfish and narcissistic society that preaches excess. When the truth is no one is better than anyone else.
Perhaps their physical beauty is more pronounced. But character and other factors lead to lasting relationships rather than superficial hookups. Infidelity has a lot more to do with shallow superficial traits, i.e., money, sex, and status. And much less to do with lasting qualities of morals, intelligence, kindness, caring, and love.
As such, the rampant infidelity is a mind virus perpetrated by selfishness and nothing else. Most of today’s youth have not been taught the value of actual love, caring, or fidelity.
As such, this behavior has been rampant in today’s society and has been encouraged by a government hell bent on destroying the nuclear family as the as it is the bedrock of a stable society.
Further, in as much as the world governments have embarked on a campaign to depopulate the planet, the nuclear family is a major stumbling block in that it is the cornerstone in the continued re-population of the world.
All this being said, let’s address what to do when your partner has cheated on you. First, you must understand that whatever the reason is, it is generally a self-centered act.
There are rare cases in which the cheating partner approached you with their concerns, and you ignored their needs and refused to address them. In this case, then cheating is an attempt to receive what you refused to give.
However, generally what happens is a opportunity presents itself such as someone flirts and shows sexual interest or your partner sees an opportunity for gain whether it’s status, power, financially or sexually and just chooses to take it.
Usually justifying their actions as warranted to correct a slight perceived or imagined by their partner. The most common is a lack of sex.
Which they fulfill with the partners best friend or their boss or other person of authority in your partners life. Or even some taboo action like multiple partners simultaneously or perhaps some other fetish you refuse to indulge them.
You find out about the infidelity, whether via a text message, their actions or their lover confronting you. Now, what? The majority of people react in several ways. They either withdraw entirely, severing all ties monetarily, emotionally, and physically.
Or the second way, which is the nuclear option of scorched earth. In which you go on a revenge trip to destroy your partner and their lover completely. This usually happens due to your ego being damaged. And, a need to restore your sense of self.
Which is correct? The answer is neither. Though you are hurt, you must understand that the issue has zero to do with you. In truth, it has to do with a weakness and an inability of your partner to act like a responsible adult.
As such, neither of the aforementioned options adequately address the underlying issue. That being the character flaws in your partner and in doing either simply highlight an inherent weakness in your own character. As such, you must rationally calmly assess the situation and take a measured response to their failures.
What response did you ask? Well, you must understand the situation. Are they actively trying to hurt you? Do their actions represent an active attempt to directly threaten your property, financial well being or you physical well-being?
If none of these things are true. Then, access what they were trying to achieve by their actions. If they did try to harm you in any way, then of course, take any and all actions necessary to counter such harm.
However, if your partners actions were simply self-centered and motivated to counter some personal slight, you need to ask yourself one question. Am I better off with this person in my life? If the answer is yes, then you need to confront them and attempt to address this betrayal. And find some way to rebuild trust.
Such a rebuilding of trust could be to cut or control access to social media, perhaps tracking programs on cell phones, and agreed to monitoring of devices as well as monitoring of daily actions.
It could also be a renewal of that relationship, perhaps dates, getaways, and of course intimate encounters. No relationship can survive a complete lack of intimacy.
The other alternative is an equitable split and separation. If the truth is the partners liaison was facilitated by a need for something they no longer could get from the relationship, then separation is the only answer in such an event.
Conclusion: Freedom is what should always be maintained rather than disrespect and illicit actions. Rather than betrayal, people should maintain friendship as a basis for all relationships.
Rather than lies and hardships caused by such a breach of trust as occurs due to infidelity. People should simply be honest and part friends maintaining a relationship rather than hurting others for no reason.
However, self-centeredness is wanting to have your cake and eat it, too. And the truth is unless your partner agreed to an open relationship. Infidelity simply destroys not only intimate relationships as well as friendships.
The answer to infidelity is to communicate beforehand. And if a concensus can’t be reached amicably then to part as friends rather than to create animosity that once created can last a lifetime and have a much more far reaching consequence than just the two in the relationship.
Including parent, families, children , friends, and even those at their work and all their families as well. Infidelity is a mind virus that can destroy a society left unchecked. As such, the real answer is communication and real caring for others. As well as respect. If you truly love your partner, grant them freedom and consideration rather than lies and pain.
Modern Women and the Death of Traditional Gender Roles
The modern female has been told she needs to be in charge. To embody leadership, to be the epitome of what it means to be powerful, thus take on the masculine role. As such, it is but one of the great lies used to divide the sexes.
Other lies that have been told by the Globalists are that it’s ok to kill your unborn infant because it isn’t a human. And that women are oppressed therefore requires liberation from their traditional roles as a wife, mother, Confortor, and matriarch of her clan.
These lies were meant to remove women from their true seat of power and separate them from their true position as the ultimate feminine and therefore to deny men the real strength and power women bring to the world.
All these lies were meant to interrupt and destroy society as a whole, painting traditional roles as something to be shunned and stigmatized as bad and to be eliminated at all cost.
By doing so, the traditional role of men was also denigrated by default painting the men’s traditional roles as Father’s, Leaders, Protectors and the ultimate masculine as something to be reviled and demonize
As well as the position of the Patriarch, a symbol of oppression rather than a position of leadership and guidance. Men were separated from their ultimate role as the foundation point upon which the clan rallies around.
Thus dividing the family unit usurping the power of both masculine and feminine and reversing their true positions in the world. With governments attempting to take the place of the family unit.
All this being said, the reason modern women, especially those over thirty, are finding it hard to find a lasting relationship is that both sexs have forgotten their places of power.
As such, many have reversed positions, and with a solid foundation of traditional values, no one can form a lasting bond as both sexes are fighting for the position and leadership of that relationship.
With masculine women believing they have the power but are unwilling to take the responsibility that comes with the central position.
And men who have lost sight of their roles in the nuclear family, therefore, have become unable to sustain a family being too much in the feminine power to maintain and lead the family properly.
This lacking is due to missing role models in the strong male energy of a father figure. This missing strong masculine role model affects both the men and women of society. With both sides craving that strong central core that acts as a qualifier and teacher of each representive traditional gender role.
In a time where traditional gender roles are seen as archaic, oppressive, and demeaning, it becomes obvious how
Globalists influence and lies as driven a wedge into the nuclear family structure and, as such, have become a real catalyst and danger to traditional family values as a whole.
As such, modern women are at age thirty, finding it difficult, if not impossible, to find a man whole embodies the traditional masculine traits needed to create a lasting family relationship.
As weak men are unable to maintain their leadership position and tend to simply act out of selfish motivation, becoming duplicitous and ultimately aren’t capable of acting as Patriarchs and instilling leadership to maintain the family unit.
They have literally lost their place and, therefore, are unable to fulfill their traditional role in the family unit.
Women are key to not only repairing this issue. But so to guiding men back to their position by remembering their own power. And as such, forcing men to regain their position as well.
Because feminine energy is nurturing, teaching, and guiding. These are the qualities required to restore the traditional male gender roles by taking up their own traditional gender role and, therefore, their own power once more.
Whether women realize it or not, it is that they have been used as a weapon to destroy the traditional masculine gender role that has led to the weakening and crumbling of the foundations of the traditional nuclear family.
Because it’s the power of women that maintains, sustains, and grants men the power to take up their traditional gender role and guides them as they lead as the head of the family.
There is truth behind the old adage behind every man is a strong woman that guides them. The genders feed off of and compliment each other’s positions and roles as the masculine and feminine are both required to sustain and balance out the family unit.
However, because of the propagandist lies that have been fed to modern women. They have quite literally become their own worst enemy as they compete to try to be men rather than understand their true power lays in embracing their absolute feminine and thereby not only uplifting men but teaching them their true role as leader and Patriarch of the nuclear family unit.
Conclusion: However, until modern women understand how they have been separated from and had their power well and truly usurped from them, they will never be able to correct the problem.
And men are repulsed from modern women due to a subconscious understanding that these women are not accepting their positions and the men feel threatened by these nontraditional females demanding something that the Modern day men are ill-equipped and uneducated thus unable to provide or sustain.
Modern women are literally blocking their own happiness based on a series of lies that prevent society from operating as it is meant to. Causing chaos, degradation, and moral decay. These lies are the seeds of the world’s destruction as a whole .
Women's Self Esteem And Sexuality 