The collapse of Western civilization can be directly tracked back to the demoralization and attack on the nuclear family. Without a strong center, the whole can not stand.
A lack of strong male role models had led women to a devaluation of moral standards. As well as a lessening of moral standards. The children are not being taught not only their own worth but too self respect.
Women growing up today lack the love of a strong male parent to lead them and grant them insight not only of their own worth. But to show them their lives have meaning and purpose. They matter and are more than just the use of their bodies to survive.
The men being raised in this generation also lacking guidance and respect for women have begun to see the opposite sex as simply a thing to be exploited and used for their own selfish reasons.
Thus is born the idea of hookup culture. Though prostitution is neither a new development. Nor is it only a modern occurrence.
However, what is new is the push to try to justify and mainstream something that has held a stigma attached to it of lower classed actions, therefore relegating it to the poor and criminal elements.
Women growing up today have major issues regarding lack of love from father figures. As well as a lack of understanding of their own worth having never been taught these things as adolescents.
As such, they lacked moral education and added to this little or no formal education and / or financial stability. They are forced to survive the only way they believe they can and thus begin to try to sell the only asset they possess their bodies.
All this is a direct result of the destruction of the nuclear family in Western culture. This destruction began at the end of World War 2 and was pushed in earnest during the turbulent post-war era of the 1950s.
The Communist USSR set about a plan to destroy the west by demoralization as well as elimination of western values which they laid out in a game plan to conquer the west in a long game strategy which they stated would take generations to fully implement.
Though the Soviet Union collapsed, the Communist plot continued. The 1960s showed a marked departure from traditional Western cultural and moral norms. With the children rebeling and being encouraged to throw off the ideas of their parents for more ( Progressive) ideologies.
With each passing generation, more and more of the bedrock of society and moral standards was eroded. More moral ideas were discarded in favor of (updated) beliefs. Until what was a solid moral footing had given way to a sandy shore of ambivalence and constantly shifting standards.
What had once been seen as immoral and culturally unacceptable was embraced as progressive and updated. Where racism could be justified in the name of social justice. And, the ideas considered either culturally taboo, such as pedophilia is now being attempted to be mainstreamed in the name of inclusiveness.
It is in this chaotic period that young women find that they are challenging the idea that prostitution is not low classed and morally reprehensible but rather to be embraced as empowering. The idea of my body my choice.
However, in truth, it is the least empowering path to take. With sex work as it had been rebranded to somehow make it more acceptable to devalue themselves as nothing but a thing to be used for a price.
This is what fueled the rise of Instagram models. As well as the Onlyfans platform. However, regardless of branding and social media hype, the fact is these women are being lied to and exploited by an immoral society that is teaching immorality as a path to empowerment.
But in fact, it is simply enslaving these young people’s minds with a mind virus of slavery to the role of degradated slave to be used and then cast aside when they cease to be useful.
Conclusion: These children of the current generation have been lied to and demoralized just as the Communist had planned decades ago. And because many lacked a moral center, they fell victim to this demoralization strategy that began long ago.
The sad part is these children weren’t taught any of this so without the knowledge of the level of betrayal that they had been subjected to aren’t even aware of why they all had to suffer their fates.
Simply being born into this decline without any clue as to the actual cause of their torment and misery. Without the nuclear family as the cornerstone of morality. Western Civilization is doomed to fall just as other civilizations who came before them.
Hookup Culture thus is simply a symptom of a rot and decay that arises when traditional family values are discarded in the name of progressivism and the lie of collectivism. These things always lead to moral decay and, ultimately, the collapse of civilization as a whole.
And if you lack the knowledge of this historical progression, you are damned to repeat it.
A Guide To 30 Something Women On Finding Their Life Mate
I have noticed increasing numbers of women over thirty asking where all the good men who want a committed relationship are? And I have decided to give my insight and opinion on the subject.
First: The men are out there they are working and surviving just like everyone else however they have gotten increasingly cynical and dishearted by a generation of women that were taught they don’t need a man therefore have treated these men as disposable.
Easily replaceable as a pair of shoes and causing these hard working men to give up on dating because they are tired of being financially, emotionally and spiritually used by increasingly uncaring narcissistic selfish women who care only about themselves and what they can get from them rather than how they can love and give to them as well.
The women of this generation have been lied to by society at large. Told they should be men’s equals in every aspect.
In actuality, life is not a competition but rather a cohabitation with each sex possessing their own strengths and weaknesses, which are meant to complement their partner not to compete or overpower them.
The key to understanding how to gain the long term commitment you want ladies is to take all the garbage you have been taught about the need to force equality and throw it out with the garbage and start over with the eye toward real balance rather than a artificial equality.
True equality lies in understanding of purpose in this reality. Man’s purpose is to be the head of the family. The provider, protector, the one to set the course and lead the way.
The woman’s purpose is to nurture, to support the man, and make it possible for him to do the things he needs to do to provide,protect, and be the trailblazer for the family.
The woman is the confidante, caregiver, emotional anchor, spiritual bedrock the man stands upon. She is the mother, sister,daughter,lover,friend, and matriarch of the clan. Her position is important because without her, the man is like a loose sail in a storm. Without grounding, stability, or emotional strength. All of which women provide.
Men represent the patriarch, husband,son,father,brother, lover, and friend to the woman. Men carry the seed of life while women carry the power to actually give birth to that life.
Each has their place and purpose. Neither can exist successfully without the other regardless of what anyone has told you. Further, neither is superior to the other, but both have their place in the scheme of things.
Once you understand this dynamic, then you have taken the first step toward finding the committed relationship you seek. But this is just the first step.
Second: You must be willing to commit fully to someone and accept them as they are not as you want them to be. What does this mean? It means we are all human, and no one is perfect regardless of what attributes they possess.
We have all been hurt, physically, emotionally, and spiritually . You must be willing to accept the man as he is flawed and all. As well as going into the relationship as the only one you want or need for the rest of your life. And mean it. Or this relationship is doomed before it has ever begun.
Once you establish your true desire and understand you aren’t being diminished in any way but simply assuming the place you have always been meant to be in. Then you must convey this to the man you focus on and tell him you desire and heart sharing your real motivation for the future.
Once you have done this and prove you mean it, you will be amazed at his transformation and how his attitude will be changed.
You see, you have just become everything he has wanted, hoped for, longed for his entire life. You have just given him purpose and his life meaning by placing him in the position he was born to fulfill.
Conclusion: Though it has seemed impossible to gain the things you have sought, including love, companionship, validation, attention, caring, loyalty, and sincerity.
What you will find is that once you give it and understand the facts I have laid out above, you will see how effortlessly those things will come to you. You become the man’s equal by complementing his attributes.
There is a reason that they call women the men’s better half. You are to parts of a whole. Once you truly understand this, then you will understand completely what unconditional love truly means.
And you will have a true committed relationship with a man who will sacrifice anything for you because you complete him.
The Porn / Sex Worker Industry And The Silent Abuse Of Women
The porn industry has long been a bane of human kind. It is tolerated in the same way as the sex worker industry has been tolerated as a necessary evil. Tolerated because of the human need for the biological sexual need for release.
The problem is though quietly accepted as a necessary evil still both industries represent a danger to women’s wellbeing as well as an environment of abuse.
All for the promise of a financially lucrative career path. And though there are a few who succeed with gaining an actual living. The majority end up being abused mentally, spiritually, and physically.
Some of the girls are severely affected, physically injured permanently. The majority walked away mentally damaged due to the acts they were forced to act out. As well as the physical damage done to their bodies causes a lifetime of medical issues as a result of violent sexual acts forced to endure due to repeated violent sex acts.
Most of the girls who have entered these industries tell stories of being coerced into greater and greater levels of involvement. Most beginning with clear cut boundaries which over time they were forced to recant those limits.
They were forced to participate in each act they initially started out, not willing to take part in. Most times, their agents were the ones who encouraged them to participate in those initial restricted sex acts.
After hearing multiple stories that though they participate willingly of their own free will. They regretted it after the acts. And never made the fortunes they thought they would. Many times, as little as 500 a video. For lifetimes of suffering which followed those sex acts.
Those who went through it cry as they recount their ordeals. A number of them are either literally committing suicide. Or being tormented with the desire to take their own lives because they couldn’t bear the memories of the acts they took part in.
The industry routinely takes advantage of the women who participate in the videos created. Some acts are literally disgusting and have very little to do with normal sexual relationships.
A lot of which places to fetishes of rape enactment. As well as gangbangs, simulated forced acts of imbibing different bodily fluids, anal, violent sex acts of hard sex. As well as forced to do male/female sex, female same sex acts. And other taboo acts of B&D and Sadism.
The main issues caused by all of this is it either encourages men/women to think these acts are normal. Further, those who starred in these videos are left with little in return for enduring all these events.
They are left tormented for life, after living through these acts of abused. Many women literally dying young as a result of their participation in this industry.
Conclusion: We are left with the conclusion that though people support the content created by this industry, we see that the result is those who agreed to participation in these acts are forever tainted. As well suffer permanently for their decision to be involved in the porn industry.
As to the sex worker industry it’s obvious the chance of not only abuse mentally and spiritually is similar. So to they put their lives on the line with each hookup.
Ultimately both industries are rife with abuse and false promises of making their fortunes. Both industries though they are obviously secretly supported by the population, are patently bad. Those who are tempted to involve themselves in both with the hopes of notoriety and wealthare cautioned to beware.
Because the truth is those are hollow promises. Though you may gain a potion of stardom remember you may not want to be known for the videos you starred in. The content that ends up on the internet, remains there long after you have moved on from that lifestyle.
The Perceived Nature Of Relationships Versus The Actual Nature Of Relationships
The Precieved Nature Of Relationships Versus The Actual Nature Of Relationships
It has been the topic of discussion recently about the value of men versus the value of women intrinsically speaking. And , I feel the need to weigh in on this topic with my own observations.
I think the problem here is that the question has not been framed properly. The common discussion seems to revolve around sex and the ability to pull partners. As such, the argument can be made its easier for women to have sex than men.
However, this argument aside, let’s delve into the actual topic of pull from a man’s perspective, i.e., mine. I am 59 years old, and a good amount of my lifetime was before the advent of social media and computers. As such, one question is what constituted the ability to pull in my younger years versus my ability to pull as an older man.
In a man’s younger years before the internet, the classic skill set was needed. For example, the ability to be outgoing. This means to not be shy and the ability to dwell in the masculine. To have no fear to approach women, to convey your desires, and hold eye contact. Versus, being shy, introverted, and awkward in manner or speech. Those aspects have always been red flags to women.
Further, though, they don’t know why women are drawn to (bad boys). But, this is actually a primal desire, and it revolves around the perception these type of men are tough and have the ability to protect them.
That is the actual reptile brain pull for those types of men. And the perception that nice guys or beta male simps are not capable of protecting a woman, therefore disqualifying them as potential sexual partners or mates.
The next quality women are being told is desirable is big penises. And they will initially pursue this trait. However, after a while, the majority not all admit that it is uncomfortable to have sex with such huge genitalia and will then seek out average men for life partners.
The third trait that has been propagated is men who are successful. More often than not, when asked women state, they are looking for men with 6 figure salaries because they crave stability and believe that this trait will provide that stability they seek.
Whereas their mother’s version of this was a man with a steady job. And a future to move up in whatever career they were embarking on and could provide for not only the woman but also their future offspring.
Though things have changed in the sense of technology. What hasn’t changed is the propensity for women to seek out men who are good protectors, providers and men who can provide for their sexual needs which over time they realize is not all about the genitalia, but actually has to do with love, caring and experience.
Now, let’s discuss perception. Younger men are seen as lacking in many of the above traits, not all but enough that it disqualifies them for long-term partners. They are seen by most women as immature. And are only good for a sexual hookup and nothing more.
I have spoken to numerous women, who have conveyed the same or similar stories that when they attempted actual relationships with these men in their 20s, and early 30s what occurs is the men abuse them physically or mentally.
They often steal their money and end up cheating on them with their best friends. There are none of the traits that would sustain a lasting relationship. This due to the men’s immaturity and lack of a strong male figure in their lives to teach them the correct morals required for a lasting relationship.
I digressed from my original premise to lay out a quick analysis of relationships before and after the advent of the internet and their obvious effects on the men/women dynamic. Now that we have delved into some basic facts. Let me share my perspective on pull, attraction, and the realities I have experienced as an older man.
First, the starting premise is perspective. What is it I desire now versus when I was a young man. The two desires for a companion are wildly different. The me of my youth was driven by unbridled hormones.
I desired sex constantly, and as such, my goal was to hookup with as many women as possible to fulfill that need. It was an all-encompassing desire.
I was incapable of actually understanding fidelity because I was being controlled by my bodily functions. And, as such, was constantly being driven by that motivation. I suspect young women are being driven by similar desires.
The difference is that I have never been a 10. I was a decent looking guy and never had a real problem finding a woman for sex if there were women available. However, the pool of potential sex partners was not nearly what they are in the digital age.
Further, it took time to develop confidence and the ability to be outgoing enough to approach women I didn’t know to initiate a hookup or relationship. So, as such, most of the time, I was lacking on sex partners. Which means my bodycount was much less than men and women of this era.
However, the goal then was to get a steady girlfriend to take care of my bodily needs. And to hold on to that woman. Oh, if the opportunity presented itself for an odd encounter, it was always pursued. However, believe it or not, the actual desire was to keep a girlfriend at the end of the day rather than constant promiscuity.
Was I able to pull any sexual partner I wanted in my youth? The answer is no. Young women have a inherit ability to pull sex partners at a much higher level than any man could ever be capable of unless they were in the top 10% of all men or, in other words, 10s.
Now, all of this being said. Let’s delve into how this dynamic changes with age. First, men and women experience role reversals when it comes to age. Women find their ability to pull men is severely curtailed starting in their late 30s and declines as they pass through their 40s and 50s.
Further, their priorities shift from just having fun and sex to a long-term relationship and children. While men, who have for the most part worked their while lives and perhaps had been married for a substantial portion of their lives upon separation or divorce, are looking for something quite different.
Their lives often ruled by the stress and chaos of maintaining a family are looking for things many men lacked over all that time. Things such as caring, sensuality meaning closeness, touch. Just being near another person and feeling the comfort of them next to you can heal a lifetime of loneliness.
Peace is another trait older men want. After having dealt with decades of constant stress and chaos, this aspect becomes more precious than gold. They opportunity to simply exist with another person, perhaps simply laying your head in her lap, and relaxing is priceless.
Further, men age like liquor or fine wine. As such, their pull goes up substantially amongst younger women who see older men as representing most of what they want. Not all but enough. Stability, protection, maturity, and a generation of women lacking a father figure. The older man represents a daddy they never had, and its a huge pull for men my age.
I have found I pull women effortlessly. Usually younger and of a higher beauty than I did in my youth by not really doing anything. They approach me online. Truthfully, it’s my indifference that they find attractive. I’m not clingy.
Because at my age I don’t need much except what I listed above. I enjoy sex but it’s no longer a all encompassing need. I enjoy it now for the closeness..intimacy of it rather than the act it’s self.
I can say that as an older man, I have seen I have more pull than a porn star. Why? Because I don’t have to do a thing. To have women approach me on a regular basis. So I would posit that with age, the positions reverse, and men gain the ability women possess in their youth to pull partners without effort or stress.
Conclusion: With time, everything changes. The worries of youth give way to the reality of the older person. You gain wisdom and insight. As such, you begin to understand that the purpose of relationships is not for personal gratification or material gain.
It has to do ultimately with inner peace. And, to find that person that can lead you to that goal. Once you understand this, you transend from the mere superficial nature of the interaction with the opposite sex for purely selfish motivation. And progress to the actual purpose of a lasting relationship.
And that is to learn and grow as a human being. This is the ultimate goal of relationships. And the path to peace.
A Lost Generation Of Women
It is no secret that women today struggling with a host of problems their mothers and grandmother’s didn’t face. Among the problems are the Cult of Trans trying to redefine what it means to be a biological woman.
As well as that, the same group of Trans Activist are trying to normalize Trans women in biological women’s sports, making biological women face an uphill battle to maintain not only their status as athletes.
But also forced to fight to keep traditionally women’s spaces IE showers, restrooms changing areas safe in the face of the Cult of Trans trying to force their way into those spaces causing biological women to fear for their very safety where women of the past never had to do.
Women’s liberation was a complete failure and left this generation of women in dissolution. The society tells young women that it’s empowering to sleep around. And that men are the source of all their woes. When in reality it was the 3rd wave feminist move to blame for many of the social ills that they face currently.
For not standing up for rights that actually matter to biological women. Rather than virtue signaling and supporting biological male (Trans Women’s) rights over biological women’s rights, which was the point of the movement in the first place.
Further, due to the complete failure of the educational system, women have attended colleges and gotten degrees that have no real-world applications when they graduate. They are stuck with huge student loan debt and absolutely no way to repay it, let alone survive on their own.
However, because society has done such a number on these young women, they are not marrying earlier in their 20s like the generations before them did. And because of mass infidelity, they aren’t keeping men to help them survive and pay their basic necessities like rent and food.
And because they all bought into the Grass is Greener concept. Then, after multiple times being cheated on, men began to be as unfaith as the women because their experiences have been getting taken advantage of, and therefore, they retaliated.
As such, women are ending up alone and penniless. Being forced to move back with family has no other choice rather than living on the street.
After months or years of not being able to get a decent job. And perhaps a great number of them inheriting nothing from their family. They are forced into illicit sex trades as a matter of survival.
Either joining an organization such as Onlyfans and prostitution online through selling nude pictures and amateur sex videos. Perhaps expanding to vip video calls, out calls, and direct prostitution.
And others join the porn industry, believing they will get big paydays. But , the majority of them don’t make it big. They get mentally and physically as well as sexually abused and, in the end, are left with nothing but regrets and poor self-image.
After a few years, they may get lucky and find someone to marry. Though, again, they get abused. Many having their pasts used against them and their spouses have little respect for them.
And quite possibly, they end up cheating because of being abused or ignored as their spouse pursues other women . After a while, these women believe they can do better on their own or can get a better man. So they end up divorcing.
After a period of sleeping around, they begin to regret leaving their marriage. Feeling lonely and sad. They watch as their men move on because their are a large number of women searching for stability, love, and acceptance.
Conclusion: The generation of women are facing so many obstacles that a large number have become destitute. Literally begging on the internet for food and the commodities of life. This is not only a failure of their parents to teach and provide.
But it is also a failure of the educational system, the feminist movement, and society at large. The only hope is for these women to realize the truth and return to more traditional family morals and standards and lead by example so the next generation doesn’t have to suffer such a tragic fate.
Narcissistic Endeavors
The most recent generation of young women have been told that the (patriarchy) is the great Satan to be opposed at all costs. That it is men who are the reason everything bad happens to them. In order to fight this oppression, the only option is to destroy all men.
To degrade, debase, and eliminate their self-esteem to such a degree that women can take back ownership of not only their lives but the world as a whole. However, what they find over time is this was simply a lie to further divide an already broken society.
Over time, their aspirations of being a girl boss were simply a means to an end. To corrupt the true nature of reality. That is that we all have our place and role in society. Men were meant to be the leaders, protectors, and providers.
Women were meant to be the nurtures, mothers, teachers, and caregivers and support so the men could perform their roles in the family. This is the true nature of things.
However, this dynamic was corrupted by the elites that craved power and control. Through lies and manipulation using the MSM, movies, magazines, music, and celebrities to change the actual nature of reality. Replacing it with a false reality. The opposite of nature. In the process, it is only sowing division, animosity, and hatred.
But, it also weakened the main enemy to the corrupt worldview, namely men. You see if they can use women to weaken men. Then, there will be no one strong enough to lead a rebellion against the elites in the end.
So, they teach a self-centered worldview and fostered the narcissistic mindset. Telling the woman she is the center of everything. Men are nothing but loathsome creatures that do nothing but exist like parasites. Taking everything from the poor women. And, all the bad that occurs is a direct result of men’s actions and very existence.
They literally use women to destroy men from birth to the grave. They have stacked the deck against the only ones who have a chance to oppose the elites, men.
And, they further targeted the nuclear family. Teaching it is a devisive and archaic notion of a by gone era. Something to be scorned, ridiculed, and eliminated in favor of just situationships, thruples, and hookups. Instead of having children, they promote abortion and contraceptives.
A major goal of elites is population control and elimination. Also, supporting the downfall of this generations female population. To eliminate their moral character by teaching them that to sell their bodies, star in pornography and sleep with as many people as possible is empowering.
However, it’s real intent is to demoralize and mentally damage the female population after they have damaged the male population. This leads to deep-seated animosity toward each other. Causing both sexes resentment and deep seated mistrust.
It leads to the majority of relationships breaking up over cheating. Because one or both of the people are being selfish, believe they are superior to the other and deserve a much better partner than they have.
Without appreciating the partner they have and loving them. They are quick to throw away that person for someone better. It’s called the Grass Is Greener Syndrome. However, this type of thinking rarely is factual. The majority of the time just leads to sadness and pain as well as regret.
Conclusion: This narcissistic ideology has been the greatest falsehood ever perpetrated on humankind. With women only realizing in their late 30s , 40s, and 50s that what they had been told to fight against was never the enemy. And what they really wanted was traditional ideals. Of A loving husband and children and all the stability that comes from the traditional nuclear family.
And that men were never the enemy. And elite ruling class that had manipulated generations of women were the actual enemy. And the real evil. They had been manipulated by a system corrupted and targeting humanity as a whole.
The Grass Is Always Greener Syndrome
There has been an argument raging that modern women believe themselves better than men. Or, to be more precise, strong , independent, and not needing a man. This is the lie that has been told by 20 something women to each other.
With this lie, they justify mistreatment, cheating, lying to, and other narcissistic behavior. As such, they have caused a large amount of heartbreak and misery. Some from the complete blindness to their actions. Others, when men retaliate. And respond in kind.
And, generally, by the time women hit their mid thirties, they find themselves alone and without a friend or a mate either from having their friends blindsided them and slept with their boyfriends or husbands. Leaving them bitter and alone. And it’s around this time they begin to realize the fallacy of the things they had been told.
For some, they may not have this realization until in their forties. Some even later, if ever. Some after getting into a long-term relationship and suddenly deciding you aren’t getting x,y or z.
And divorce their men only to find out that either the men they find just use them and dump them or no one wants them at all. And when they figure this out, it’s too late. Their ex-spouse moves on and left them sad and alone.
The fact is that older men tend to fair far better than older women. As such, they become more desirable rather than less and have a much easier time of finding a new mate than their female counter parts.
Remember what the old adage is : “The grass is always Greener on the opposite side of the fence.” You may always think it’s easier to just blow up a relationship rather than put in the work and commitment required to make it work, but that is just a fallacy.
What quite a few women are beginning to find out is the men who had stuck with them and worked hard. Loved and cared for them. May not have been the perfect person. However, the truth is no one is perfect. You don’t just meet the perfect partner.
Conclusion: Relationships are situations where people learn and grow. And though you may not enter as perfect individuals. Though commitment, love, and mutual respect, patience, caring, giving, loyality, and honesty.
You will find that your mate, though not 100%, perfect in every way as far as the world is concerned. Becomes perfect for you. And in the end, that’s all that really matters.
Selfishness Versus True Caring
It seems today that selfish desire has become the driving force of this generation. With personal wants and feelings overriding caring and even love. Everyone is so caught up in their own small existence, they complete neglect the needs and feelings if others.
Young women in this generation are wrap up in their wants whether it’s money or lust or power to the extent that they trample others to get their desires even if they hurt or destroy others in the process.
Online culture is rife with videos of women complete debating men as things to be use to achieve their goals and let the chips fall where they may. By forcing their will at emotional gun point.
Whether, it’s threats of leaving or infidelity the point is the same. The are driven by selfish motivation in the extreme. The question is should men except being held emotional hostage even though the man loves said woman?
How much is too much mental or emotional abuse before that relationship is destroyed? Women take for granted that their worth is far more than that of any man therefore they can justify their selfish abuse of others.
But, is that the case, or are they simply narcissistic and destructive to others to achieve selfish petty goals at the expense of others’ emotions and happiness?
Can such a person truly be capable of actual love and caring of another or do they simply see others as a means to an end? A useful idiot to be used and discarded as needed to accomplish their true objectives?
Modern women have been abandoned by their parents and society at large. And as such have either knowingly or unknowingly Launched a vendetta against men using those men to gain that which they feel slighted.
Leaving destruction and a pile of damaged men in their wake all feeling used and abandoned. And inturn irreversibly scar these men turning them into cold abusive players who don’t give a damn who they hurt as long as they fulfill their own selfish desires. Thereby creating a vicious circle of emotion abuse and cruelty.
Which can lead to cheating, broken families and physical abuse and addictions such as drugs, alcohol, gambling or sex. To try to cope with their own emotional trauma.
All spurred on by initial selfish actions. Actions which then snowball down hill until the cycle repeats itself over and over again. Spreading like a virus. Infecting all who encounter it. In the end no one is truly happy. All involved are permanently scarred from the negative interactions.
Conclusion: The selfishness of the current generation is a self perpetuating blight on humanity that infects and destroys all that cone in contact with it passing it from person to person until everyone will be society as a whole will suffer from this destructive cancerous behavior.
Are Women Going After Older Men Because They Need Stability?
I wrote a post about younger women wanting a daddy or father figure as a lover or spouse. But, I want to cover another aspect of this phenomenon. It has to do with the fact that the future is very uncertain.
And in this current beta male generation, women are fearful and apprehensive that they could be left homeless and starve because either their college degrees proved useless in getting a decent career.
Or they never went to college, lost their jobs and the boys they met were not able to take care of themselves let alone someone else. As such the younger women began to search for men more like their fathers for financial security and support.
As such, they began approaching older men online. Sometimes 15 to 20 years or more older to find the security they were lacking. Though they are often physically desirable, being younger and possessing nice figures . They often don’t bring desirable traits aside from sex to a relationship.
Sadly, though they are searching for lasting relationships. They are often taken advantage of by either unscrupulous older men. Or they themselves abuse and try to take advantage of the older men they actually do encounter.
I have seen repeated cases of women just coming out and blatantly asking for money. Sometimes right after they meet a guy. Or even contact him on social media to ask for money without actually formally meeting him or knowing him at all.
Ofttimes they are looking for food money. But not always. It is a symptom of the silent depression we are currently living through. As such alot of young women are desperate. And, also a number of scammers pose as women and muddy the waters of the current online dating scene.
Further, younger women have been treated atrocious by their generation of beta boys who use them for their bodies. As well as steal anything they can from them and have zero loyalty. Often sleeping with the young woman’s best friend.
The bottom line is this generation of young women have been left without a safety net of parents or even grandparents in some cases. And are left to fend for themselves in the wasteland that is life in 2023.
Conclusion: Left with very little alternative after 2020/2021 Covid Pandemic. These young ladies have turned to older guys to try to provide for their needs and survival. As well as to find a emotional security they just couldnt ever find in their own generation of men.
This sad state of affairs is the failure of the parents that raised a generation of selfish young men. As well as failing to teach these young ladies to provide for themselves. As well as failing to leave some sort of family legacy to help sustain them into the future. This failure of the parents and grandparents will have dire ramifications on future generations of people.
Using Men Like An ATM
There has been a very disturbing trend in the current generation. It entails women believing men must support their needs without a commitment involved. They will at first be sweet, send nice words and photos.
However, in a short time, they will begin to ask for money for food or “miscellaneous. ” And yet they may not have even committed to being a girlfriend or exclusive.
Society has taught them that they are much more valuable than men. Therefore, they desire to be cared for without doing anything on their part. In a time when hard work is seen as folly. And everyone wants to be rich without earning it. These women are taught that there is nothing wrong with using men as portable ATM’s. To be used whenever they please without concern of a relationship.
Most women meet men online, and without even physical meetings, begin the process of demanding support. For some, it’s rent or food. For others it’s clothes and just spending money.
But, whatever the case, it’s men that are expected to foot the bill just because they had the misfortune of being born male. The parents have allowed the internet to raise this current generation of women who want high value wealthy men without giving and effort and bringing only their body to the table. As if that is, of course, more valuable than whatever the men can provide.
Conclusion: It was a failure of a generation of parents to teach their daughters values and morals, and as such, it may well be a generation where the women end up living their lives alone because the men find someone better. Alternatively, they may feel it’s better to remain single rather than be used for their money.
Women's Self Esteem And Sexuality 